Luke 11:1-13
This morning, we continue with Jesus on his journey to Jerusalem, where he will face suffering and death. We join the early followers in receiving more training on what it means to live as a Disciple.
On this journey, we have been reminded that we are called to love God and neighbor, including some who we would rather not call “our neighbor”, as well as the importance of listening for direction before doing. The lessons of discipleship are intensifying as the journey continues and the Disciples may feel overwhelmed by what they were experiencing, feeling unprepared to live out what they hear Jesus calling them to be and do. They are likely trying to figure out how to relate to God and to others in this radically different way which Jesus taught.
We may know all too well how they were feeling.
We may know the feeling of “I hear you God but how will I ever love and serve that person who thinks so differently than I do, who I don’t know, who dresses “funny,” who frightens me? How can I take time to study the word and to worship when then are church events to plan and staff, family vacations to take, and a “to do” list that won’t quit. How can I do what I hear God calling me to do when there is not enough time or resources?”
Maybe you know that feeling of wanting to live out our faith as modeled for us by Jesus, but feeling unprepared and overwhelmed.
The disciples have witnessed Jesus handle tough questions, problematic situations, and difficult people with the strength, power, and wisdom of God. They have watched as he spent time in prayer and they seem to have come to the conclusion that there is a direct correlation between his time spent in prayer and who he was in relationship to God, his followers, and others.
As men of faith, the disciples were raised to understand how to pray, but must have witnessed something in Jesus that made them think there was some format, content, or procedure they were missing. That the connection they saw between Jesus and God in those times of prayer was something they needed if they were to be who Jesus was calling them to be, something they needed Jesus to teach them. They couldn’t figure it out on their own.
The request would not have seemed at all unusual: “Teach us to pray as John taught his disciples.” It was the practice for teachers of the Torah to teach their students a prayer that would identify them and connect them as a group.
When Jesus told them what they should say “when you pray:” They may have wondered why what he offered was so simple, so generic and all encompassing. It was probably not the unique prayer they expected. Rather than setting them apart, as followers of a specific teacher, the prayer opens up access to everyone. Weaves together the phrases that all children of – God the Father – can pray together alone or in community. Even when we disagree on theology or process, followers of Christ are united with God and each other when we pray this prayer.
One of the articles I read this week pointed out that even when we are alone saying this prayer which Jesus taught us to pray, we are united with many others who are saying these words at the same time. We are united as we share them in worship this morning and many in our community, nation, and world join us in praying as Jesus taught this Sunday and every Sunday. Millions of voices honoring God, seeking daily bread for one another, asking for help to resist the evil trying to draw us in, forgiving one another. Pretty amazing.
Maybe the first lesson of this prayer is that we can all talk to God. God the loving, understanding, forgiving, provider, protector creator, wants to hear from us, to be in a relationship with us which includes committed conversation. Even when we don’t have the words to express what we need to bring before God, we can say this prayer and have it all covered.
More than once I have sat with someone who is living in a different state of reality than I am. Who speaks of times, places, and people unrelated to what we would consider the present. He or she thinking I am someone else, or uncomfortable because they have no idea who I am. Then I ask if they want to share the Lord’s prayer with me and with clarity they join in and our realities unite in a precious moment with God, who loves us both.
Jesus does not stop with giving us a prayer, he puts it in context, offers us deeper understanding of how prayer makes a difference in our lives and in the lives of others. How our lives can be and should be an extended act of prayer.
Immediately after giving the disciples words to say when they pray, he tells them a story about two friends. One who has retired for the night, doors locked and lights out, and one who faces an unexpected and potentially devastating problem that needs a solution right then.
In a culture without cell phones, all-night grocery stores and grub hub, an unexpected guest in the middle of the night with no provisions for basic hospitality would be a disaster. Being prepared to offer hospitality was not only expected but could be vital to the well being of the guest who may not have had access to provisions on the journey. To not be able to offer a visitor bread was a source of significant embarrassment, a terrible social and religious failure.
We know they are friends. They have a relationship, and from the way this story unfolds, a deep relationship. It is unlikely the one would have tried to wake up the other if they only exchanged polite “hellos” when passing on the street. This relationship allows confidence that even though it is a pretty big ask to have the friend get up, find some bread to share, and open the door that late at night, ultimately the friend will do just that because you persistently asked.
I have a rule with our children, and grandchildren that if they ask for something once, I will evaluate the timing, purpose, and resources available and then give them an answer. If they ask again the answer is automatically NO. I think they know this scripture way too well because when it is really important to them, my rule is ignored, and persistence has been known to ultimately result in a positive response to their request.
Persistance, praying without ceasing, seems to carry into the next two stories Jesus shares as well. Ask and you will receive, Seek and you will find, Knock and the door will open.
He doesn’t say we will receive exactly the answer for which we hoped, that we find that for which we were looking, or that the door that opens will lead were we thought it would. He does tell us what we receive, find, and open will be what is good for us because God wants good things for us.
It is interesting that the Holy Spirit is the good gift our Father in heaven gives us. Not necessarily things, improved status, mended relationships, physical healing. The Holy Spirit – God with us all the time and everywhere. God responding to what we need, what we desire, what is hurting us – all the time – offering us what we need in every situation.
“Jesus teaches us to pray by praying himself, and then tells us to be persistent and trusting in those prayers.”[1]
When you pray – remember you come before a God who listens, to us, cares for us, forgives us, provides for us, protects us. There is nothing hidden from our Father in Heaven.
When you pray – come as a child gong to a loving parent.
When you pray – pray with not only your words, but your relationships, your decisions, your actions, hallowing God with every part of who you are.
When you pray – be aware of all those who pray with you, not only where you are, but around the world, joining God is hearing those things which bring others joy and which bring them pain, prepared to help wherever possible.
When you pray – let go of the things that keep you from loving others.
When you pray – be open and aware of the gift of the Holy Spirit – empowering, enlightening, strengthening, sustaining, and guiding you.
When you pray – don’t make it about a certain time and place, make it about every moment and part of your being, that God may be Hallowed, Honored by all you say and do.
When you pray – be patient, persistent, recognizing the answer comes in God’s time and God’s way, and is always for our good, even when we find it difficult to understand.
When you pray –
Pray like this: God, we honor you on earth more than we honor our own flesh and blood parents. Please come to rule our lives every day that we have on this earth. Help us to not worry about the future. We ask only for enough bread to get through this day. Don’t forgive us our sins until we have found a way to forgive every person who has done us wrong. And please God, do not test our faith too much because we know that we are weak and that we will surely fail.”[2]
[1] Kathryn M. Matthews, Sermon Seeds July 29, 2019
[2] Discipeship ministries Preaching Notes July 28 2019